Philmar Alipayo Breaks Silence on Andi Eigenmann and Jake Ejercito Co-Parenting Speculations

 June 4, 2025

In the wake of swirling rumors involving actress Andi Eigenmann, her ex-partner Jake Ejercito, and current fiancé Philmar Alipayo, the surfer-turned-family man has finally spoken out. While gossip headlines claimed tension between the trio, Philmar addressed the issue calmly and directly—providing clarity on what’s really happening.

Rumors vs. Reality

For weeks, online chatter has suggested that Jake Ejercito was “intervening” in Andi’s current relationship with Philmar, allegedly due to their shared parenting of daughter Ellie. Tabloids even ran titles such as “Philmar Alipayo Reveals The Truth About Andi and Jake!” fueling public speculation.

But according to Philmar, these stories are overblown and taken out of context.

In a brief but honest statement shared via Instagram Stories, Philmar said:

“People need to stop assuming things. Andi and Jake are doing what’s best for their daughter. That’s all. Walang drama.”

Co-Parenting, Not Conflict

Andi and Jake Ejercito co-parent Ellie, their daughter born from a previous relationship. While they’ve long moved on romantically, both continue to maintain communication for the sake of their child—a dynamic that Philmar says he fully supports.

“I respect that they’re co-parents. It doesn’t bother me. What matters is our own family is happy and secure,” Philmar shared in a now-viral comment.

He also emphasized that he has no issue with Ellie visiting her father in Manila or Andi traveling for parental responsibilities.

Andi’s Stand

Andi Eigenmann has remained relatively quiet throughout the rumor cycle but has continued to post photos of her life in Siargao with Philmar and their two younger children, radiating peace and grounded family values. She has not issued any statement suggesting problems with either Jake or Philmar.

Her social media posts show family bonding, ocean adventures, and everyday life that seems far removed from the narratives being pushed online.

The Real Message: Respect and Privacy

Philmar’s tone was not confrontational but rather protective of his family’s privacy. His message is a reminder that public figures, though admired, deserve respect and space when it comes to personal matters—especially when children are involved.

The surfer added:

“We’re just living life quietly. Hope people stop reading too much into things. Focus on your own peace, not rumors.”

In Summary

There is no confirmed conflict between Philmar Alipayo, Andi Eigenmann, and Jake Ejercito. According to Philmar himself, the co-parenting arrangement between Andi and Jake is functional and respectful. The online noise, as he suggests, is largely the result of assumptions and gossip.

Related Reads:

Andi Eigenmann and Philmar Alipayo: Life in Siargao with Their Growing Family
Jake Ejercito on Fatherhood: “Ellie Keeps Me Grounded”
What Healthy Co-Parenting Looks Like in Modern Filipino Families
Why Rumors About Celebrities Should Be Taken with a Grain of Salt